Rebuild trust, find your voice, and become a team again
...through the Connected Covenant Framework, a structured 90-day path for faith-centered couples who are exhausted, disconnected, and ready for something to actually change.
Licensed Professional Counselor | Free 45-minute consultation | Virtual sessions, Oklahoma and Missouri
What Happens When You Click
Pick a time that works for both of you. Takes less than a minute.
We talk for 45 minutes about what's actually going on in your marriage. No pressure, no commitment.
If it's a fit, we map out your first steps together. If not, I'll point you somewhere that is.
If This Sounds Like Your Marriage Right Now
He tells you you're overreacting, or worse, that you're crazy, when you know what you felt was real. You bring it up again and get a week of change before everything fizzles back to where it was. You're carrying the household, the kids, the planning, while his part stops at bills and the trash. You feel like you adopted a child, not a spouse, and every promise to change fades within days. You show up to church alone, and lately you're not sure your marriage matches what you believe about it.
What You Can Expect
- Licensed Professional Counselor (MS, LPC)
- Approach grounded in Gottman-based couples research
Mishelle Dyer LPC Oklahoma and Missouri Couples Counseling
The Connected Covenant Framework
Nine steps, three phases, one clear path back to each other.
Phase 1: See the Pattern
Before anything can change, you have to see what's actually happening and why.
- Spot the loop that turns small frustration into shutdown or blowup
- Trust your own instincts again
- Stay calm enough to stay in the conversation
Phase 2: Change How You Show Up
Once you can see it, the work shifts to how you communicate it.
- Bring up what matters without feeling guilty for having needs
- Say what you actually mean without it turning into a fight
- Stop carrying more than your share
Phase 3: Decide and Build
After you can see the patterns and change how you talk, you rebuild.
- Rebuild the closeness that's faded
- Protect your marriage from outside pressure
- Start functioning like a team again
You don't have to keep having the same conversation with nothing changing. The Connected Covenant Framework gives you a clear, structured path to understand what's been happening, change how you both show up, and rebuild the trust your marriage was built on. Not a quick fix. A real way forward, in 90 days.
Meet Mishelle Dyer, MS, LPC
Meet Mishelle Dyer, MS, LPC
I became a therapist because I know what it feels like to be inside a relationship where you're trying everything and nothing seems to land. I've worked with couples who came in as roommates and left as teammates, and with partners who needed to find their own voice before they could show up fully for their marriage.
My approach is grounded in Gottman research and shaped by respect for faith and what it means to build something that lasts. I work with faith-centered couples across Oklahoma and Missouri who are ready to stop surviving their marriage and start building the one they meant to have.
Before You Book, You Probably Want to Know
Your Marriage Isn't Beyond Repair. It Needs Something Different Than What You've Been Doing.
This isn't about deciding who's right. It's a free, no-pressure conversation about what's been happening and what a real path forward looks like.
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We'll follow up within 1 business day to schedule a free 45-minute consultation, where we'll identify two or three things you can immediately do to improve your situation.
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